Its ok just to feel sad.
For anyone grieving over anything you are still allowed to find moments of normality. You are still allowed to find things that make you smile. Even with the greatest of losses you are not expected to cry non-stop. Cry, grieve, scream at life for being a shit but Never feel like you have to fit into an expectation of grief.
I have started this blog to talk about my Daughter Lily who was born asleep on the 5th of February 2017. I hope talking about my experiences will not only help me but also help others.